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Insider guides to Southeast Asia

From Indonesia, Singapore and Malaysia to Thailand, Vietnam and more – here, insider guides to all the places in Southeast Asia you can’t wait to get back to or visit next year.

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1. Bali, Indonesia

Insider: Erik Sondhy, musician

COMO Beach Club in Bali
COMO Beach Club in Canggu is the cocktail bar that has everything.

There’s no shortage of atmospheric cocktail bars in Bali, but COMO Beach Club in Canggu is the place that has everything: the perfect beachfront location famous for its sunset, the pool, the ambiance and the exquisite cocktails. They have a special Saturday Tunes and Tacos where you can enjoy tacos and refreshing tequila-based cocktails with live entertainment from different performers.

The menu at COMO Beach Club
The lunch spread at COMO Beach Club won’t disappoint.

If you’re looking for a Sunday escape with the family, they even have free-flow ice-cream with loads of toppings for the kids. My favourite cocktail? I’m for anything with tequila because it’s refreshing in tropical weather. Sometimes I’ll opt for a margarita, but then there’s nothing like enjoying sunset with friends with a Long Island iced tea in hand.

Interview: Dilvin Yasa

Enjoy a sundowner at COMO Beach Club
Cocktail golden hour at COMO Beach Club.

2. Jakarta, Indonesia

Insider: Lucienne Anhar of Tugu Hotels & Restaurants, Indonesia’s leading boutique art hotel collection

Old colonial building in the old town of Jakarta, Batavia
Eat like the locals do in Jakarta.

The best places to eat like the locals do in the bustling Indonesian capital:

  • A must-visit is Lara Djonggrang Restaurant, based on a centuries-old legend that surrounds the Candi Prambanan temple in Central Java. The food is like a local, very authentic encyclopedia of cuisine of the archipelago, it is designed to change visitors’ opinion that Indonesian food is just nasi goreng and satay.
  • Kawisari Cafe on Jalan Kebon Sirih is [influenced by] the oldest coffee plantation in Java, from the Dutch colonial times, but emphasises the beautiful culture of simple living in the traditional Javanese villages – steeped with tradition and inspired by the majestic landscape in the volcanic lands of Java.
  • Animale Restaurant, with delicious woodfired dishes described as contemporary American-Mediterranean, beautiful decor and a whole sensorial experience.
  • For an elegant dining experience head to Kunstkring Paleis, known as the old Immigration Building, right at the centre of Menteng/Central Jakarta.
  • Koda is a secret Japanese speakeasy bar, where the owner is the mixologist himself, with very interesting Japanese-inspired cocktails.

3. Singapore

Insider: Mark Wong, senior vice-president Asia-Pacific of Small Luxury Hotels of the World

Singapore insider travel tips
Mark Wong reveals his travel tips for seeing a new side to Singapore.

The Tai Seng/MacPherson estate is a treasure trove of hidden gems. Once a vibrant kampung (local village) area rife with gang wars and an industrial estate, Tai Seng now shines with cafes and interesting shops.

Tai Seng/MacPherson estate
The colourful streets of Tai Seng/MacPherson estate.

Make a trip down to this neighbourhood for one of the best fishball noodles in town at Michelin Bib Gourmand Fishball Story, well-known for its bouncy, handmade fishballs. Or feast on one of the best roast meats at Mei Mei Roast Meat, operated by the younger sister of the venerable Kay Lee Roast Meat who has since sold the business. See how old-school bread is made at Jie Traditional Bread Bakery, one of the few remaining traditional local bakeries in Singapore. And while you are there, try the Insta-worthy rainbow bread – a sense of nostalgia wafts as these are usually sandwiched with ice-cream and sold at traditional ice-cream carts – which is a disappearing trade. Get them while you still can. Also check out Alchemist’s flagship cafe at an ex-biscuit factory space, Khong Guan Industrial Building.

Michelin Bib Gourmand Fishball Story
Michelin Bib Gourmand Fishball Story, well-known for its bouncy, handmade fishballs.

Retail therapy is fab at Hock Siong & Co. – the store deals with hand-me-downs from hotels and show apartments, and furniture shops that have closed down. The Fragment Room is perfect for those wanting to release all their frustrations with a bat and some very fragile items; simply choose a preferred ‘killer’ playlist, put on your safety gear and brace yourself for some rage-fuelled destruction. In case you’re worried about the environment, not to worry; the broken bits will all be recycled.

4. Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

Insider: Lynda Chean, tattoo artist and owner of boutique tattoo parlour Pink Tattoos

Kuala Lumpur insider guide
Lynda Chean shares her Kuala Lumpur travel tips.

Why should we visit Kuala Lumpur, and Malaysia?

Food! Ask a Malaysian what to eat and you will get an enthusiastic response, with people pulling out their phones to key in the address of a place to eat or even driving you there themselves! But also, sights! We always take our visiting friends to Batu Caves. It’s a bit of a hike up the stairs, but once you’re up there it is a totally different world, even though you are just minutes away from the city.

The stairs up to Batu Caves
Take a colourful hike up the stairs to Batu Caves.

The work you do is very technical, but also creative. Where do you find your inspiration in Kuala Lumpur?

Nature is my biggest inspiration. I must admit that I’m not the most outdoorsy of people, but Malaysia has lush greenery throughout the year. If I’m out for a walk with my family, I’m always taking pictures of plants, weeds and flowers. The Islamic Arts Museum is also beautiful and has provided me with an endless source of inspiration.

Pink Tattoos Kuala Lumpur
Nature is the biggest inspiration for Lynda Chen’s tattoo art.

What are your favourite stores in the city?

The Bangsar area is dotted with interesting independent boutiques and eateries, such as stationery store CzipLee, independent skate shop Wheel Love Skateshop, and APOM (A Piece of Malaysia), which carries a good range of Malaysiana souvenirs – it’s a go-to for us when we travel to visit friends and family.

What one thing would you recommend to a visitor that only a local might know?

Little-known fact: there is a free public skatepark in almost every town in Malaysia. And there are several world-class parks in and around KL, such as Putrajaya and Shah Alam – it’s knowledge gleaned from being married to a skate shop owner and hosting skaters from around the world for many years.

Interview: Chloe Cann

5. George Town, Malaysia

Insider: Ivan Khoo, hotel manager of The Edison George Town

Old houses in the Old Town of Georgetown, Penang, Malaysia
Explore the Old Town of Georgetown, Penang, Malaysia.

The best places to eat and shop

  • Tek Sen – Local heritage home-cooked-style Chinese cuisine.
  • Chulia Street Night Hawker – An introduction to local street food that Penang is known for.
  • Red Garden Food Paradise – One of the last remaining food courts with entertainment offering local street food to Western cuisine, located right opposite The Edison George Town.
  • Chowrasta Market – One of Penang’s oldest markets in the heart of George Town showcasing local produce.
  • Sams Batik House – The go-to shop for all things batik and Indian traditional wear.

Neighbourhood hidden gems

  • Hin Bus Depot – A creative art community hub in George Town.
  • Clan Jetties – A floating village on stilts above the water where Chinese clans live.
  • Pinang Peranakan Mansion – Eye-catching Peranakan collectibles and insight into the history of Peranakan heritage and culture.
Pinang Peranakan Mansion
Visit Pinang Peranakan Mansion.

The best local hangout spots

  • Moh Teng Pheow – Serving various nyonya kuih [bite-sized desserts eaten as a snack] and other traditional Peranakan delights.
  • Toh Soon Cafe – Located on a discreet back lane and serving traditional charcoal-grilled toast and Hainanese coffee.
  • JUJU Lounge – An unorthodox dining experience featuring local wild-caught seafood from the waters of Penang paired with artisanal spirits.

The best streets to explore

  • Love Lane – Rustic heritage shophouses that have been converted into trendy restaurants, cafes and bars.
  • Campbell Street – Founded in the mid-19th century, this street houses retail businesses from jewellery and bags to textiles and Chinese remedies.
  • Armenian Street – Home to the famous ‘Children on a Bicycle’ mural and various other forms of street art, as well as Chinese clan houses, museums and shophouses.
Where to find ‘Children on a Bicycle’ mural in Penang
Armenian Street – Home to the famous ‘Children on a Bicycle’ mural.

The best things to do

  • A curated walking food tour by Mark Ng [of Simply Enak] to experience the renowned delicacies around our neighbourhood.
  • A curated cultural and heritage walking tour by Joann Khaw [of George Town Heritage Walks], the only recognised UNESCO World Heritage guide in George Town, to immerse yourself in the heritage and culture of Penang.

6. Phuket, Thailand

Insider: Prakaikaew Na-Ranong, co-owner and managing director of five-star property The Slate, a member of the Design Hotels roster

Beaches in Phuket
Phuket is well known for its beautiful beaches.

In your opinion, what is the ultimate reason for visiting Phuket?

Phuket is a beautiful beach destination and also a melting pot of cultures with its rich history and tradition. It is an ideal place for travellers who want more than just sand and sea for their holiday. In 2015, Phuket was named ‘A City of Gastronomy’ by UNESCO. Phuket food has an interesting combination of flavours and textures, mixed between Thai, Chinese and Muslim.

Can you give us your top five restaurant picks for eating like a local?

Black Ginger, LOBA Bangniew [a family-run shop named for the savoury snack made with pork offal], Khun Yai Chien Sapam Noodles [a traditional Hokkien restaurant now run by the founders’ grandchildren], Ting Lee Chicken Rice Bakuteeh [serving Hainanese chicken rice in Phuket’s old town] and Raya [housed in a Sino-Thai mansion built early last century, this Thai restaurant is a favourite of locals].

The Raya restaurant in Phuket Town
The Raya restaurant in Phuket Town is housed in a Sino-Thai mansion.

What sets The Slate apart from other resorts in the area?

The Slate is an avant-garde expression of Phuket heritage. A strikingly original manifestation of the island’s core; its rich culture and traditions brought to life with bold design and fearless imagination. A place of rich contrasts and unexpected elements, The Slate is a multi-faceted, intriguing experience. A captivating vision of the island’s true soul.

The Slate pool in Phuket
Stay at five-star property The Slate, a member of the Design Hotels roster.

Where do you take friends when showing them around Phuket’s Old Town?

We have a shophouse on Thalang Road where I used to live so I always take my friends there. This road has many beautiful Sino-Portuguese houses. Many people still live their lives the way they used to 40 years ago. On the weekend, the road is closed for pedestrians only. There are many local food vendors and souvenir kiosks. A small lane called Romanee just off Thalang Road is a fun place to visit. Romanee used to be a red light district with opium and gambling dens which catered to Chinese labourers working in tin mines in the old days. Today you can find colourful Sino-Portuguese shophouses that are guesthouses and cafes.

Exploring Old Town Phuket
Admire the beautiful houses in Old Town Phuket.

7. Bangkok, Thailand

Insider: acclaimed pastry chef Arisara ‘Paper’ Chongphanitkul, owner of Ici dessert bar

Ici dessert bar Bangkok
Arisara ‘Paper’ Chongphanitkul is the acclaimed pastry chef and owner of Ici dessert bar.

What is the ultimate reason people should visit Bangkok?

You can find almost anything you want in Bangkok. There’s a huge mix of cultures, people and food. It’s also a city that stays awake 24 hours a day: you can eat anywhere, anytime, whether from street food vendors or sitting down inside a restaurant. There’s also every type of cuisine imaginable, from regional Thai food to Korean, Japanese, Chinese, Mexican, Lebanese and more.

Rod Fai Market Bangkok Thailand
Get your fill of street food at Rod Fai Market Ratchada, Bangkok.

How much has food culture changed in Bangkok?

Nowadays Thai people are getting more interested in what they eat and lots of fine-dining restaurants have opened in Bangkok. Young Thai chefs have also started to look back and use our local ingredients to present Thai food in their own way, which is very interesting; it helps advance our Thai food culture.

What’s your favourite restaurant in Bangkok?

I love the food at Jay Oh, because it’s street food made with quality ingredients. I’ve been eating at this restaurant with my family since I was little, and I still go there with my friends now. If any foreign friends ask me where to go I always recommend this place. I’ll have the ‘mama oho’, which is a tom yum soup served with minced pork, prawn or crab meat etc. It’s also very famous for its ‘yum salmon’ [salmon in Thai seafood sauce with fresh herbs] and crispy pork.

What is your favourite Thai dish?

I love khanom-tom [a coconut dumpling made with glutinous rice flour] – it’s soft, chewy, and has this wonderful scent of coconut. I can finish 10 balls in two minutes!

8. Chiang Mai, Thailand

Insider: Warisarang (PAT) Ariyapakkaphol, front office manager at 137 Pillars House

Elephant Nature Park
Elephant Nature Park is an ethically run elephant sanctuary.

The best places to eat and shop

  • Jing Jai Market – The market concentrates on handmade products and organic foods, opening from 6am to 1pm on Saturday and Sunday.
  • Forest Bake – With fresh bakes daily, it serves 90 per cent handmade produce using natural wild yeast and real butter only: no margarine, no shortening, no trans fats, no preservatives and no additives.
  • Nussara – Where you can find hand-crafted cotton products from Mae Chaem [a village near Chiang Mai].
  • Woo Cafe and Art Gallery – A lifestyle shop for those looking to enjoy a drink and a meal while enjoying beautiful artwork at the same time.
  • Khao Soi Lam Duan – One of the most famous restaurants serving traditional northern Thai foods including egg noodles in yellow curry with beef, chicken or pork.
  • The Riverside Bar & Restaurant – Located just five to 10 minutes’ walk from the hotel, where you can enjoy dinner with live music.
  • Try steamed rice dumplings (khao kreab pak mo) – a popular and unique Thai street food snack.
  • Prempracha’s Collection – Located on the east side of Chiang Mai city, 15 minutes’ drive from the hotel, this place provides good-quality ceramics and pottery in a large showroom presented by professional staff.
  • The Golden Triangle in Hang Dong – sells both new and old antique home furniture and decorations from China, Thailand, British Colonial Burma, Indian, Pakistan and central Europe.
Doi Suthep Temple
Hike the Monk’s Trail before driving up the hill to Doi Suthep Temple.

Best things to do

  • Hiking the Monk’s Trail and Doi Suthep Temple – Near to the city, it takes about one hour to hike the Monk’s Trail before driving up to the hill to Doi Suthep Temple to see the Chiang Mai city view.
  • Elephant Nature Park – Located north of Chiang Mai, this elephant sanctuary treats the animals with care; no bull hooks used and no riding.

9. Phnom Penh, Cambodia

Insider: Uy Ear, co-founder and CEO at Osja Studio, Cambodia’s first game development studio

Silver Pagoda, Royal Palace, Phnom Penh
Visit the Silver Pagoda, Royal Palace.

What three things must first-time visitors to Phnom Penh do?

Firstly, visit the Royal Palace and the neighbouring landmarks along the riverside, not just for the sights, but also to taste the different local foods. There’s good traditional Cambodian noodles (num banh chok) near Wat Botum pagoda, south of the Royal Palace, or more common fried short noodles (lort cha) and steamed chive cakes (nom ka chai) north of the Royal Palace.

Best places to find Cambodian Noodles in Phnom Penh
Get your fill of traditional Cambodian noodles near the Royal Palace.

Secondly, see a traditional Cambodian dance performed in the National Museum by the Cambodian Living Arts group – it’s a kind of dance you won’t get to see anywhere else.

Central market (1930s), Phnom Penh, Cambodia
Admire the Art Deco architecture of Central Market in Phnom Penh.

And lastly, visit our traditional markets; in Phnom Penh we have quite a few, Central Market probably has the most unique architecture [Art Deco] of any market in the city, but there’s also Orussey Market, Olympic Market and the Russian Market.

Inside Central Market in Phnom Penh.
Inside Central Market in Phnom Penh.

What would you recommend visitors do that only locals might know about?

Try all our different types of food, such as fried insects, which you can find at this popular place near the middle crossing to Koh Pich, also known as Diamond Island; balut (boiled baby duck egg) and a milkshake in front of the Orussey Market, available from 6pm until late; and white porridge with salted fish along Kampuchea Krom Boulevard, near Central Market.

And one more thing: you must make time to visit a pagoda, any pagoda. We have so many here. On a normal day it might be a bit empty, but there are two holy days each month when more locals visit. It’s a great experience.

What is the one thing travellers shouldn’t leave Phnom Penh without?

The best gift to get from Phnom Penh is our traditional krama (a scarf with many different uses). It’s very symbolic of Cambodia and quite useful too. It’s the one thing I always carry when I go abroad, and I take it as a gift too. There are many different colours and materials available, all with differing quality and price. Everyone will know that you’re Cambodian, or that you’ve been there, if they see you carry one of these.

Interview: Chloe Cann

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10. Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam

Insider: Dang Thuy Duong, cafe and tour company owner of The Old Compass Cafe and Old Compass Travel

The streets of Ho Chi Minh
Ho Chi Minh has a great deal of amazing modernist architecture.

What’s the perfect way to start the day in Ho Chi Minh City, commonly known by its former name, Saigon?

My perfect morning starts with a bowl of phở bò (beef) at Phở Minh while listening to the birds sing. A true Saigon experience is having a genuine Southern-style breakfast and Phở Minh, in District 1, is clean and quiet, has been run by the same family since the 1950s and their phở is very good.

What are your favourite local restaurants visitors should try?

Hu Tieu Thanh Xuân, located on the corner of an alleyway at 62 Tôn That Thiep in District 1, has been in business for 70 years. For dinner I usually want a decent sized meal and often spend evenings at my own cafe, The Old Compass in District 1. Our food is very good, the staff know my taste and it always feels like home. It’s also a relaxed place to meet with friends and family.

Where should visitors head to discover Saigon/Ho Chi Minh City’s artistic side?

The Factory Contemporary Arts Centre in District 2 is not new but their exhibitions and activities constantly change. A positive development in Ho Chi Minh City over the past 15 years is the increase in art and cultural events.

What do you think people should know about the city?

Most visitors have the impression that Hanoi is Vietnam’s historic architectural centre. In fact, Saigon has a great deal of amazing modernist architecture starting with the General Science Library and Independence Palace.

What should visitors take away with them from Saigon/Ho Chi Minh City?

I would recommend visitors take home a pack of good coffee, a photo with a local, a postcard of the city to send to someone they love and a positive attitude like the Vietnamese people.

Interview: Elspeth Callender

11. Palawan, Philippines

Insider: Edi Aga Mos, founder of socially conscious local operator Tao Philippines, shares five secret destinations in the Palawan islands

1. Cadlao Island, El Nido

The biggest island in El Nido bay. While everyone wants to see the [area’s] lagoons and most popular beaches, Cadlao has empty beaches, swimming caves and thick jungle, and is the closest to town, even reachable by kayak.

Cadlao Island
Cadlao Island is the biggest island in El Nido bay. (Image: Scott Sporleder)

2. San Fernando and Sibaltan, El Nido North Coast

A one-hour drive from El Nido town through farmland and coconut groves. Kilometres of shallow and smooth beaches perfect for kiteboarding. Diving in Sibaltan is a must, where it is combined with the study and conservation of newly discovered manta rays, for a magical close encounter with these gentle sea angels. Tao Beach Farm, for those who want a few days of the luxury of simplicity, real farm-to-table cuisine, and native massages away from the herd.

3. Malcapuya Island, Coron

While extra effort is required to get here compared to typical island hopping in Coron, Malcapuya Island is magical. It used to be one of our first expedition basecamps and is now a destination for the expanding island-hopping map. You might find a crowd here too, but you’ll get the dreamy tropical paradise you want.

4. Whale Shark Sighting, Puerto Princesa

An initiative to help local fishermen benefit from tourism, reporting a sighting of a whale shark in the bay, through an organisation. If you manage to time your visit with the seasonal migration, you’ll tick one of the boxes in the ‘once-in-a-lifetime’ list.

West Busuanga
The never-ending white-sand islands of West Busuanga. (Image: Scott Sporleder)

5. West Busuanga Island Hop

One hour’s drive west of Coron; drop-off point near Conception town. There are resorts on the rocky coast offering access to world-class dives and snorkel spots in shallow pristine reefs. Island hop through the never-ending white-sand islands – Pass Island, Calumbuyan, north and south bay. Camp Ngey! Ngey! is also located here, our fun Crusoe-style island destination.

Camp Ngey! Ngey!
Camp Ngey! Ngey! is our fun Crusoe-style island destination. (Image: Scott Sporleder)

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These community homestays are changing how travellers experience Nepal

    After youth-led protests in 2025, this year Nepal elected a 35-year-old former rapper as Prime Minister. In a country where tourism is its biggest industry, what’s next for travellers? 

    In 1986, Nepal changed its clock. It had used India Standard Time since 1920 so, to differentiate, it wound its clock 15 minutes ahead of, not behind, its big-brother neighbour. Boss move. “Nepal is strongly opposed to the idea that our identity is connected to India,” says Community Homestay Network (CHN) guide Bikal Khanal.  

    Tharu dance
    Tharu dance is traditionally set to hand drums. (Credit: Kate Lewis)

    Today, Nepal is the only independent country with a 45-minute deviation to universal time; an oddity that’s become a symbol of national pride. The quirk is nearly as endearing as Kathmandu’s Tribhuvan airport where carved varnished wood and shiny red bricks rule. One sign points to a ‘Travelator’ and another to a ‘Grievance Handling Desk’ while visas are noisily stamped at customs for US dollars, cash only. When am I?  

    Nepal gray langur
    Spot the endemic Nepal gray langur. (Credit: Simon Urwin)

    The 15 or 45 minute anomaly sees me tap out completely on timezone calculations. Why bend my brain calculating if it’s quarter to or quarter past elsewhere when I’m in the honking here and now of Kathmandu where the air is high-altitude crisp, the prayer flags flutter and the street dogs howl?  

    How tourism is changing in Nepal

    Bardiya National Park
    Bardiya National Park is rich with wildlife. (Credit: Simon Urwin)

    India is not the only association many Nepalis would like to shake. With eight of the world’s 10 tallest mountains, including Mount Everest and Annapurna, Nepal has long attracted mountaineers and trekkers, and expedition numbers are continuing to rise.  

    Tourism is one of the country’s biggest sources of foreign currency, so this growth is not negative, per se. But according to Ang Tshering Lama, who co-founded Phaplu Mountain Bike Club, being reduced to a mere trekking destination is limiting.  

    “Trekking is just one layer of our identity,” says Ang. “When it becomes the dominant narrative, it limits how we’re seen and how we see ourselves.” Nepal’s recent success, however, in diverting trekkers to less-trafficked areas such as Manaslu mofuntain, where visitor numbers rose by 117 per cent last year, offers hope that tourism can diversify even more radically.   

    Local men in Bhada village
    Local men in Bhada village. (Credit: Simon Urwin)

    The founder of CHN, Shiva Dhakal, wants that change. “The whole idea of the Community Homestay Network is to promote experiences outside of trekking,” he says. “Community tourism changes lives and helps kids stay home instead of coming to the city or migrating to the Middle East.”  

    Ang grew up seeing people leave, “not because they wanted to but because there weren’t enough opportunities to stay”, he states. Yet from remote villages to living traditions; food, art, music and emerging subcultures, “there’s so much that’s not being seen.” 

    CHN is opening some of those doors. It doesn’t own, or fund, any homes. Rather, it promotes homestays to travellers on a single, slick platform, while fostering entrepreneurship in places where women, marginalised castes, Indigenous people and the youth stand to benefit the most.  

    A new generation demanding more

    Dalla Town Hall
    Dalla Town Hall, where volunteers discuss anti-poaching tactics. (Credit: Bheem Thapa)

    The future prospects of next-gen Nepalis can no longer be ignored. On a Kathmandu tour with 33-year-old guide Monica K.C, we pass buildings torched in the September 2025 ‘Gen Z protests’, including the Supreme Court and Parliament House. Seventy-two people died. “They were anti-corruption protests,” says Monica. “Politicians’ children are living a lavish life but the airports are crowded with youngsters leaving to find work.”  

    We stop in ‘little Tibet’ at the wondrous sixth-century Boudha Stupa. “The wheel of life is Buddhism in a nutshell,” says Monica. “Things such as hate, ignorance and anger keep you rotating around the wheel, so you must follow the principles of Buddhism to detach. If you can’t, there’s no nirvana for you.”  

    Boudha Stupa's prayer wheels
    Boudha Stupa’s prayer wheels are used to recite Buddhist prayers. (Credit: Kate Lewis)

    In a sun-drenched twist to the usual temple visit, we ascend the stupa’s sloping plinth and roam its whitewashed dome. Tendrils of diaphanous prayer flags stream from a steeple-like structure where the Buddha’s unblinking eyes stare out. No nirvana for you… 

    bouda stupa prayer flags
    Tibetan-style prayer flags embellish the whitewashed dome of Bouda Stupa, a Buddhist temple. (Credit: Kate Hennessy)

    The dome is delightfully free of guard rails or chiding from security. There is, however, a stern ‘No TikTok’ sign, perhaps in response to the youth’s newly flexed power. The booted-out Prime Minister, K.P. Sharma Oli, was replaced in a resounding election victory in March by 35-year-old Balendra Shah of the Rastriya Swatantra Party (RSP) – a former rapper and mayor of Kathmandu. The RSP’s manifesto indicates tourism is a priority, and that Nepal’s cultural identity in areas such as gastronomy will be strengthened.  

    Boudha Stupa vendors
    Vibrant souvenir shops and cafes around Boudha Stupa. (Credit: Kate Hennessy)

    A more confronting stop awaits at Pashupatinath Temple. Today is Bala Chaturdashi, a Hindu festival where thousands of devotees gather to honour their dead ancestors. Vendors hauling foam mattresses do a lucrative trade as people set up for a night of vigil. This includes burning the bodies of recently deceased relatives on bamboo pyres in the Bagmati River, which flows into the sacred Ganges.  

    A woman at annual Hindu festival Bala Chaturdashi
    A woman at annual Hindu festival Bala Chaturdashi, in Kathmandu. (Credit: Kate Hennessy)

    Wrapped in a shroud, the bodies are positioned with their heads facing north to the Himalayas where Lord Shiva resides. They’re covered with flowers and straw and set alight by male family members.  

    Hours later, the ashes are swept into the river where devotees will take a holy dip the next day. As much as Monica assures us it’s not voyeuristic to watch, I struggle to do so. “Here you see the reality of life because everyone ends up there,” she says, gesturing to the river.  

    Life unfiltered in the Terai region

    tharu woman
    Tharu woman and master weaver Parbati Chaudhary in Bhada Village. (Credit: Bheem Thapa)

    The reality of life needs processing time, which the western Terai region delivers in spades. The Terai is largely separated from India by the Karnali River and Bardiya National Park, where elephants, rhinos and the elusive Bengal tiger roam.  

    Once a nomadic tribe, the Indigenous Tharu people are now the largest ethnic group here. “They didn’t know their daily life was interesting for international travellers but they’re starting to understand now,” says CHN founder Shiva.  

    safari through Bardiya National Park
    Take a Jeep safari through Bardiya National Park. (Credit: Bheem Thapa)

    We fly Buddha Air to Dhangadhi airport and drive five hours to stay in Tharu homes. The journey to Bhada village is a blur of roadside fruit stalls, traffic-stopping sacred cows and fields sown with wheat, rice, mustard, spinach, cauliflower and potatoes. Nepal’s agriculture feeds only Nepal.  

    Marigolds
    Marigolds are an important part of Hindu rituals. (Credit: Simon Urwin)

    “The only thing we export is young people,” says our guide Bikal. As the light dims and we plunge evermore rural, mysterious mounds of compacted hay – some house-sized – loom like the creatures from Where The Wild Things Are. Even our trusty driver gets flummoxed by a dirt road that abruptly ends and we find ourselves hurtling across a paddock.  

    On arrival, some are ferried to mud-walled cottages greened by gourd creepers, with thatched roofs and rustic-chic mosquito nets. Myself and two others are ushered to the home of corner store owner, mechanic and mushroom farmer Man Kumar Chilaruwa and his wife Rajkumari.  

    community homestay entrance
    A warm welcome at a community homestay. (Credit: Simon Urwin)

    They escort us to a bunker-esque back building with steel doors and a folding security gate, behind which is gleaming linoleum, dolphin-printed tiles and a shower cavity that must be gingerly stepped through to reach the toilet.  

    The ceiling lights emit a rainbow of colours (the bathroom light gets stuck in, frankly, a quite frightening red). We’re nevertheless touched that our hosts invested in all this bling when the average salary is around $275 a month.  

    In the coming days, we participate in Tharu traditions such as making moonshine, dancing, weaving straw handicrafts and gold-panning. We’re fed well with staples of rice, mustard greens, lentil pancakes, daal, curried chicken and tomato chutney served on antibacterial saal leaves.  

    food at community homestay
    Dig in. (Credit: Kate Hennessy)

    Sonara community homestay president Indradevi Tharu tells us river snails are often served, and the boiled and pickled flesh of rats hunted in the rice fields. “Perhaps next time?” we say and all have a laugh.  

    The power of community homestays 

    community homestay owners in Nepal
    Barda community homestay owners Parbati Chaudhary and Ram Krishni Devi Chaudhary. (Credit: Simon Urwin)

    Immersing Western visitors in foreign cultural practices is not new. But with the Tharu, I never get that uneasy sensation that I’m being performed for. Despite being the only tourists, there’s no ‘othering’; just warm, composed and ultra-dignified welcomes. Like we’ve always been here.  

    “I love to have travellers in my village so I can see the world,” says local woman Parbati Chaudhary. “Why would I travel the world when the world comes to me?” 

    The graceful acceptance the Tharu offer, as well as the slow pace, works miracles on my frazzled nervous system. One day I even take a nap on a vacant homestay bed. 

    Sonara community room
    An authentic stay in the Sonara community. (Credit: Kate Hennessy)

    Roosters strut and goats bray as we sit on the ground in al fresco kitchens, rolling rice flour into cylinders steamed to make dhikri (dumplings). When water is needed, we fetch it using a hand-operated pump as a family of ducks strolls by, side-eying us like curious neighbours.  

    Animal lovers will delight in Tharu villages. Kind and resourceful inventions are everywhere, such as snacking stations where two posts lean together, with leafy boughs dangling on rope for baby goats to forage from.  

    CHN’s CEO, Aayusha Prasain, nods knowingly when one in our group says she cried when she left her host, Shayam Chaudhary, in Bhada. Shayam’s 17-year-old son, Prashant, had translated, which deepened the connection.  

    “Community tourism turns travel into a relationship, not a transaction,” says Aayusha. “It places decision-making power in the hands of local communities, especially women and youth.” Since 2018, CHN has hosted more than 4000 travellers from 52 countries in 408 households, and estimates women’s participation has increased by 381 per cent.  

    Elephant watch
    Elephant watch. (Credit: Simon Urwin)

    In the Bardiya community, where vexing human-animal conflict has been a balancing act for decades due to elephants raiding crops, long-time homestay operator Salik Ram Chaudhary says young people keep the older ones on their toes.  

    Gathering greens
    Gathering greens. (Credit: Bheem Thapa)

    “We can’t keep homestays stagnant,” he says. “We have to upgrade our service and redefine our product or young people won’t see it as an attractive business. If we can keep evolving with this travelling trend we’re confident the youths will stay and continue it.” 

    Back in Kathmandu, Monica explains that after the deaths of young protestors in September, a determination had spread to not let their sacrifice be in vain. “We want to keep holding the government accountable,” she says. “We don’t know what situation we’re facing, but we’re ready to face it.”  

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