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Uncover the splendours of India on a luxury journey to remember

A luxury journey through the splendours of India unlocks the country’s rich culture and heritage through iconic sights like the Taj Mahal and the palaces of Rajasthan, where the majestic and mystic coalesce.

The moon is up, almost full. It’s a chalky thumbprint in a copper-pink sky mottled with sunset and mirrored in the silken water. Our boat glides across Udaipur’s Lake Pichola, washed in gold as the palatial buildings that line its banks cast their own shimmering reflections. We take in the scale of the City Palace, one of the largest in India, as it tumbles towards the water’s edge. And we slip past the white marble edifice of Lake Palace, built in the heart of the lake in the mid-18th century for the pleasure of Maharana Jagat Singh II and now a destination hotel.

the City Palace in Udaipur
Take in Udaipur’s City Palace on the banks of Lake Pichola.

Our small group is so absorbed by this swirling mirror world of liquid light and colour that Sunny’s insights into the fascinating history of Udaipur, the so-called City of Lakes in the north-west state of Rajasthan, are falling on distracted ears. And that’s when, halfway through our Abercrombie & Kent journey, our resident tour director slips into the conversation the small fact that he is royalty. Now he has our undivided attention.

Ex-professional cricket player, PhD student and devout Hindu. Equally proud of India’s forward trajectory as the fastest-growing major economy in the world and the huge potential of its youthful population as he is of the many facets of its ancient culture and heritage.

In demand as a tour guide for his love and knowledge of India and the generosity with which he shares it with guests. Passionate about his role as storyteller to help visitors understand the country in all its richness and complexities. This much we’d gleaned already about Sunny, or Suryaveer Singh Shaktawat, whose name is derived from two Sanskrit words that translate to Brave Sun. But now we are in his hometown and, as we cross the lake from our hotel, The Oberoi Udaivilas, for an evening at his family home, he adds this thread to the tapestry.

the Oberoi Udaivilas reflecting the Rajasthani craftsmanship
The Oberoi Udaivilas reflects the richness of Rajasthani craftsmanship.

Defined by its lakes, created over centuries and pinned in place by the ancient Aravalli Range, Udaipur was once the capital of the Mewar Kingdom, the founder of which Sunny is a direct descendant. His family is acknowledged as the world’s oldest-serving dynasty, with an unbroken lineage of Maharanas – or kings – that stretches back to 734AD. And he shares the same blood lineage as its 76th custodian, Arvind Singh Mewar.

While India’s monarchies were abolished in 1971 along with access to the privy purse, royal families retain their titles and role in society and generate income through alternative means, such as converting their palaces to heritage hotels. Rajasthan, then Rajputana, was once a land of princely states including Jaipur and Jodhpur where our journey will also take us. And the House of Mewar, known as the Sun Dynasty, remains a vibrant part of India’s cultural and political fabric.

The icon of India – the Taj Mahal

Three sunsets earlier in Agra, I was standing in the aura of the Taj Mahal. The immense monument to love wrought in translucent white marble was built between 1631 and 1648 by order of Shah Jahan in memory of his favourite wife Mumtaz Mahal. I took in its scale and majesty and tried to calibrate the reality of seeing something so iconic in person.

Amid the thrum of others, I took photos as the colour of that timeless facade changed with the fading light, but tried also to commit this feeling to memory: the shared human experience that proves, even in a digital age where overexposure breeds disconnection, we can all still be awed. The Taj Mahal attracts up to 8 million visitors annually, so it’s surprising to find pockets of peace here in its gardens: just you and the parrots flitting among trees in the undeniable but unfathomable presence of the most famous building in the world.

We returned the next morning for sunrise, arriving when the mausoleum was bone white against a milk sky, its dome just beginning to blush pink. Up close, we took in the exquisite inlay work you miss in pictures: intricate floral patterns and Arabic script rendered in gems.

As a red orb sun hovered in the eastern sky we marvelled at the detail on all sides of the mausoleum. I wondered if Sunny ever tires of bringing people here. No, he answered. “I can talk about this building for years. No words can ever do justice to it."

a couple posing behind Taj Mahal in Agra
The Taj Mahal, in Agra, is a monument to love. (Image: Imogen Eveson)

Celebrating the heritage and culture of Old Delhi and beyond

We’d started our journey two days earlier in Delhi, where the sky swirls with black kites that emulate the city’s perpetual motion. We took a rickshaw ride through the markets of 17th-century Chandni Chowk, turning down alleys of ever-decreasing width where stalls of piled-high spices and fabrics or steaming corn and sticky jalebi jostle for every inch.

And in the heart of it all, Haveli Dharampura is a salve against the bustle, an oasis of space off the narrowest of streets. This 19th-century mansion was rescued from ruin and transformed into a boutique hotel and restaurant that celebrates the heritage and culture of Old Delhi. We dined on a street-food-inspired lunch at its restaurant Lakhori, named after the burnt-clay bricks of the Mughal architects who built Chandni Chowk and so much of India.

birds flying above Haveli Dharampura, Old Delhi
Birds swirl above the rooftop of Haveli Dharampura, an oasis in Old Delhi. (Image: Bharat Aggarwal)

From Delhi we travelled to Agra, where The Oberoi Amarvilas – voted among the World’s 50 Best Hotels in 2023 – rewards travellers with its showstopping swimming pool and views of the Taj Mahal from every guestroom. And from Agra, in the state of Uttar Pradesh, we cross into Rajasthan.

blue aesthetics at The Oberoi Amarvilas
Ponder penning a love letter at The Oberoi Amarvilas, which has stunning views of the Taj Mahal and designs based on Mughal palaces.

India’s vibrant desert state of Rajasthan

Our coach driver Varender Singh, who we call Malli, has the calmest of temperaments in the face of India’s notorious traffic, where lanes are but a suggestion and there’s always a cow to negotiate round. And we’re well looked after by J.P. Singh, or Mama: affectionately dubbed the ‘mum of the bus’, who welcomes us back from each heady excursion with chilled water and a shy smile.

India’s vibrant desert state announces itself on the highway. Red, yellow and citrus fabric flashes brilliant colour in the wake of mopeds and decorated trucks emit musical trills. Peeling off into the countryside, we make a pit stop at Abhaneri village to visit a traditional stepwell used in arid regions like this to store water.

But one should never underestimate a pit stop in India. Chand Baori is an architectural marvel in its own right: built more than 1000 years ago, its geometric pattern comprises 3500 narrow steps and crisscrosses 13 storeys to the bottom of the well like an inverted pyramid. We’re finding extraordinary in the everyday.

Indian women carrying water from the stepwells of Rajasthan near Jaipur
The traditional stepwells of Rajasthan are another architectural marvel.

India’s fabled Pink City of Jaipur

I’d been tracing the horizon of the ragged Aravalli Range through the window and now, on the outskirts of Jaipur, the mountains have encroached, wrapping around the street scenes I’m glimpsing as a lightning storm moves in. Two elephants appear in my periphery and disappear down a shadowy side street before I have a chance to really see them.

I feel the electricity in the air like a spark of magic as we arrive in India’s fabled Pink City. Our hotel, The Leela Palace, rises majestically from the dark and, when we step off the bus and through its doors, we are showered – quite literally – with rose petals.

the daybed at The Leela Palace Jaipur
Sink into a daybed at The Leela Palace Jaipur, another palatial hotel that exemplifies the magnificent architecture and crafts of India. (Image: Imogen Eveson)

In 1876, Maharaja Ram Singh of Jaipur ordered the city to be painted pink – which symbolised hospitality – to welcome a visiting Prince of Wales. That burnt-brick hue has come to epitomise the city. Some 150 years previously, Jaipur was founded on another creative idea when Sawai Jai Singh invited 36 artisan trades from all across India to make their home here – from kitemakers to chefs to painters to silversmiths. This spirit of creativity still inspires and attracts artists to a city that blends the splendour of its past with the pulse of the present.

the Jaipur Hawa Mahal (Palace of the Winds) in India
The famous Hawa Mahal, or Palace of the Winds, in the Pink City of Jaipur.

Perched high above Jaipur, the Amber (or Amer) Fort is an exquisite amalgam of Hindu and Mughal architecture. And in the heart of the old town, the City Palace complex reflects Rajput heritage in all its stunning detail: its highlight undoubtedly the Pritam Niwas Chowk courtyard, where four glorious gates represent the seasons: Peacock for autumn, Rose for winter, Green for spring and Lotus for summer.

the beautiful side panel of the Ganesh Pol in the Amber Fort, India
The kaleidoscopic architecture of Jaipur’s Amber Fort is carved from pastel sandstone and marble.

Revitalised fine-dining restaurant Baradari, within the oldest walled quarter of the City Palace, celebrates the city’s traditional crafts and artisanal skills within the context of contemporary Jaipur.

the Rose Gate at the City Palace, Jaipur
The pretty patterned Rose Gate at the City Palace, Jaipur, is dedicated to the Hindu Goddess Devi.

Nearby Jantar Mantar is an astronomical garden observatory built by the Rajput king Sawai Jai Singh and completed in 1734. The UNESCO World Heritage site features the world’s largest stone sundial alongside other instruments used to observe the movements of the cosmos. India’s ancient rulers were led by the stars, and this sense of mystery and magic entwined with its majesty still percolates through today.

a painted Aries zodiac sign at Jantar Mantar observatory, Jaipur, India
At the Jantar Mantar astronomical garden observatory in Jaipur, the majestic blends with the mystic.

In Rajasthan, royalty and mysticism go hand in hand. Luxury linked with the subliminal. Rambagh Palace is the erstwhile residence of the Maharaja of Jaipur and his style icon queen, Maharani Gayatri Devi, and today operates as a Taj hotel. That evening we dine in opulence at Suvarna Mahal in its original palace dining room on thali served on golden dinnerware with cutlery designed by Versace, while the resident astrologist reads palms on the terrace outside.

a portrait on the wall at Taj Rambagh Palace
The Taj Rambagh Palace, Jaipur, is like a living museum. (Image: Imogen Eveson)

Expect the unexpected in Jodhpur

Every day in India is different and unexpected by the country’s very nature. And A&K throws its own surprises into the mix. Deep in a valley in rural Rajasthan, our lunch en route to Jodhpur turns out to be a feast under the canopy of a 300-year-old banyan tree at luxe hideaway Mountbatten Lodge in the company of larger-than-life Reggie Singh, with a predilection for jazz and reverence for the ‘old ways’. We sip gin and tonics and dream of returning to lounge poolside on a daybed and head to the hills on the lodge’s leopard safari.

The greatest surprise comes when we arrive in Jodhpur to an audience with the king, Maharaja Gaj Singh II. Built in the Art Deco style of the day between 1928 and 1943, Umaid Bhawan Palace is still a royal residence but doubles as a Taj hotel. Over a drink in its wood-panelled Heritage Room, we meet the 38th ruler of the house of Marwar, who ascended the throne aged just four when his father died in a plane crash. He shares not only tales of his storied life but, in a moment of levity, shopping tips too.

a gilded suite at the Umaid Bhawan Palace
Stay in a gilded suite at the Umaid Bhawan Palace.

The palace is a landmark on the skyline of Jodhpur, the Blue City in the Thar Desert so called for its buildings painted indigo.

Its other landmark is the imposing Mehrangarh Fort, which stands high on a sandstone cliff – its immense fortifications concealing a number of palaces each more dazzling than the last. It was here in 1952 that Maharaja Gaj Singh II’s Rajtilak, or coronation, took place as a black-and-white photo of the child in regal attire depicts.

The Blue City and Mehrangarh Fort in Jodhpur
Jodhpur, with its mighty Mehrangarh Fort, is known as the Blue City.

We head to Maharani Textiles and Handicrafts, on recommendation of the king, to lose ourselves in the jungle of fabrics that this family-run textile house manufactures for fashion royalty – the likes of Kenzo and Armani – using the traditional handicrafts Rajasthan is famous for. Then as the sun starts to mellow, we drive into the desert to Salawas for a village safari. Here, we see traditional crafts at play, from potters making hand-hewn mud vessels with skills passed down through generations to expert dhurrie weavers who create colourful rugs in their backyard that present like carpets of wildflowers against the desert landscape.

Coming full circle in Udaipur

Back in Udaipur, it feels only natural when Sunny mentions the fact that he is part of the Mewar dynasty. Richness in all its forms – from cuisine to art to palatial hotels to textiles and the jacket with silk embroidery custom-made for me by a tailor named Prince (who does bear an uncanny resemblance to the mononymous artist) – has been a thread woven throughout the journey.

And earlier that day, I’m awed by Udaipur’s City Palace, with its magnificent courtyards and gilded rooms that glimmer with opulence and artistry.

the lotus gate at City Palace, Jaipur
The lotus gate is designed with intricate patterns.

Welcomed by the gleaming sun emblem of the Mewar kings, it’s all marble and thikri mirror work, hand-painted murals, glass that throws out colour like disco lights and walls that shine a shade of champagne thanks to a wash that blends seashell, eggshell, limestone and water.

the exterior of Mehrangarh Fort in Jodhpur
The Sun God plaque welcomes you to City Palace, Udaipur.

It also has the largest collection of miniature paintings in the world, where artists captured courtlife in intricate, vivid detail with each brushstroke applied using one single hair of a squirrel.

an elephant mural at the City Palace in Udaipur
A vibrant mural of a royal elephant at the City Palace in Udaipur.

At the complex’s highest point, Badi Mahal, or Garden Palace, was built as a pleasure pavilion with its panoramic views of the city, lakes and hills. While monkeys play in the trees above a pool used for Holi celebrations in the past, I squint and imagine the Rajput kings and queens overseeing festivities from their ornate balconies.

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Understanding India

We step off the boat on Lake Pichola and follow Sunny through Udaipur’s old town to his family home, where 36 people live across four generations. At its heart, the hallmarks of a traditional house: a stepwell, an open courtyard, a living temple, a field to grow crops.

cruising along Lake Pichola at sunset
Glide across Udaipur’s Lake Pichola at sunset.

We are greeted by Sunny’s wife, two of his three daughters, his mother, nephews and older brother. Over the next few hours we eat and talk: about everything from AI to studying abroad to past lives and how to activate your third eye chakra. And about India, its cultural heritage, spirituality and diversity from state to state, each one reflecting the environment in its tones and textures. “Rajasthan is colour," says Sunny’s wife Shailja Rathore, a graceful and spiritual woman, elegant in the chiffon of the royal Rajputs. It’s a state of red, orange, yellow, “which represent all the beautiful bright flowers that grow here: the marigold, rose and lotus."

A&K guide Suryaveer Singh Shaktawat
A&K guide Suryaveer Singh Shaktawat, or Sunny, and his family – Swaroop Kumari Shaktawat, Mani Prakash Kumari Chawada, Shailja Rathore and Radhey Kumari Shaktawat – at their Udaipur home.

Named after astrological systems, his daughters represent India at the nexus of heritage and the future. Eldest Radhey Kumari Shaktawat is a professional tarotist and her younger sister Swaroop Kumari Shaktawat is a graduate working at Amazon. An aspiring author and inspired by her parents, she dreams of writing about her culture and heritage; the vastness of Hinduism.

I might have had the good fortune of sleeping in a palace or two during this luxurious A&K tour of India, but I leave Sunny’s house with the greatest feeling of privilege at having been invited to share and learn about a country so complex through the portal of one family home. “Family, spirituality and culture," Sunny had said at the start of the adventure, his words resonating now. “Connect the three and then you will understand India."

A traveller’s checklist

For a similar Abercrombie & Kent journey through India, see its nine-day tailor-made Splendours of Rajasthan (from $5795pp) or alternatively A&K can create a bespoke itinerary for your perfect India adventure.

Getting there

Qantas flies direct to Delhi from Melbourne.

Staying there

During an A&K journey through India you will get to stay in some of the country’s finest hotels, including palaces. We started our tour at the historic landmark hotel, The Imperial New Delhi, home to the largest private collection of Indo-European Art in the world as well as a unique pan-Asian restaurant, The Spice Route. The eatery’s unique interiors based on the concept of the stages of life were hand painted by Keralan temple artists.

In Agra, The Oberoi Amarvilas first lures with its promise of a view of the Taj Mahal from every room but seduces with its swimming pool and fine-dining tandoor restaurant Esphahan. The hotel is inspired by Mughal palace designs and its jewel colours – teals, saffron yellows and royal purples – are worthy of a Mughal princess and Pinterest board alike. The Oberoi Udaivilas in Udaipur is similarly inspired by the palaces of Rajasthan, embellished with decorative domes, hand-painted frescoes and intricate mirrorwork to emulate the dazzling details of the City Palace on the opposite side of Lake Pichola.

The Leela Palace Jaipur channels Rajputana heritage in its use of traditional thikri, or glass inlay, Shekhawati wall paintings and silver-foiled domes. Meanwhile, its sister property in Udaipur has employed the creative flair of Bill Bensley in its colourful compositing of Rajasthani design.

The jewel in the crown of a luxury journey through India with A&K is at a Taj Palace, a grand living palace where the arrival of guests is marked by a ceremonial welcome and an invitation to key into Indian culture and history through the portal of its age-old dynasties. From Jaipur’s 1835-built Rambagh Palace to Jodhpur’s Art Deco Umaid Bhawan Palace, where the king still resides. And to Taj Lake Palace, one of India’s most romantic hotels, the former summer retreat of the Mewar rulers that floats like a jewel on Udaipur’s Lake Pichola and was used as a location in the 1983 Bond film Octopussy.

Eating there

Dining is a highlight of any A&K trip to India with each breakfast, lunch and dinner table groaning with a fragrant assortment of curries, chutneys, rice, breads and Indian specialties. Vegetarians in particular are well catered for and Western menus are also available during the trip.

A restaurant highlight is Royal Repast in Udaipur, where the Bedla family celebrates its Mewar history by serving revived royal recipes in their ancestral home. Expect fresh, fragrant menus shaped by the seasons. “In summer it’s raw mango, cluster beans, buttermilk preparations," says Shree Bedla, who hosts us along with her husband Karan Singh Bedla. “Monsoon is a lot of fried preparations, gram (dried chickpea) preparations and corn. Winter is a time of abundance: it’s fresh fenugreek, sweet potato, fresh chickpeas and carrots."

And do try the local wine while in India; I loved Sula Vineyards’ peppery shiraz cabernet and the white wine drinkers among us reached for its bright riesling and crisp sauvignon blanc.

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These community homestays are changing how travellers experience Nepal

    After youth-led protests in 2025, this year Nepal elected a 35-year-old former rapper as Prime Minister. In a country where tourism is its biggest industry, what’s next for travellers? 

    In 1986, Nepal changed its clock. It had used India Standard Time since 1920 so, to differentiate, it wound its clock 15 minutes ahead of, not behind, its big-brother neighbour. Boss move. “Nepal is strongly opposed to the idea that our identity is connected to India,” says Community Homestay Network (CHN) guide Bikal Khanal.  

    Tharu dance
    Tharu dance is traditionally set to hand drums. (Credit: Kate Lewis)

    Today, Nepal is the only independent country with a 45-minute deviation to universal time; an oddity that’s become a symbol of national pride. The quirk is nearly as endearing as Kathmandu’s Tribhuvan airport where carved varnished wood and shiny red bricks rule. One sign points to a ‘Travelator’ and another to a ‘Grievance Handling Desk’ while visas are noisily stamped at customs for US dollars, cash only. When am I?  

    Nepal gray langur
    Spot the endemic Nepal gray langur. (Credit: Simon Urwin)

    The 15 or 45 minute anomaly sees me tap out completely on timezone calculations. Why bend my brain calculating if it’s quarter to or quarter past elsewhere when I’m in the honking here and now of Kathmandu where the air is high-altitude crisp, the prayer flags flutter and the street dogs howl?  

    How tourism is changing in Nepal

    Bardiya National Park
    Bardiya National Park is rich with wildlife. (Credit: Simon Urwin)

    India is not the only association many Nepalis would like to shake. With eight of the world’s 10 tallest mountains, including Mount Everest and Annapurna, Nepal has long attracted mountaineers and trekkers, and expedition numbers are continuing to rise.  

    Tourism is one of the country’s biggest sources of foreign currency, so this growth is not negative, per se. But according to Ang Tshering Lama, who co-founded Phaplu Mountain Bike Club, being reduced to a mere trekking destination is limiting.  

    “Trekking is just one layer of our identity,” says Ang. “When it becomes the dominant narrative, it limits how we’re seen and how we see ourselves.” Nepal’s recent success, however, in diverting trekkers to less-trafficked areas such as Manaslu mofuntain, where visitor numbers rose by 117 per cent last year, offers hope that tourism can diversify even more radically.   

    Local men in Bhada village
    Local men in Bhada village. (Credit: Simon Urwin)

    The founder of CHN, Shiva Dhakal, wants that change. “The whole idea of the Community Homestay Network is to promote experiences outside of trekking,” he says. “Community tourism changes lives and helps kids stay home instead of coming to the city or migrating to the Middle East.”  

    Ang grew up seeing people leave, “not because they wanted to but because there weren’t enough opportunities to stay”, he states. Yet from remote villages to living traditions; food, art, music and emerging subcultures, “there’s so much that’s not being seen.” 

    CHN is opening some of those doors. It doesn’t own, or fund, any homes. Rather, it promotes homestays to travellers on a single, slick platform, while fostering entrepreneurship in places where women, marginalised castes, Indigenous people and the youth stand to benefit the most.  

    A new generation demanding more

    Dalla Town Hall
    Dalla Town Hall, where volunteers discuss anti-poaching tactics. (Credit: Bheem Thapa)

    The future prospects of next-gen Nepalis can no longer be ignored. On a Kathmandu tour with 33-year-old guide Monica K.C, we pass buildings torched in the September 2025 ‘Gen Z protests’, including the Supreme Court and Parliament House. Seventy-two people died. “They were anti-corruption protests,” says Monica. “Politicians’ children are living a lavish life but the airports are crowded with youngsters leaving to find work.”  

    We stop in ‘little Tibet’ at the wondrous sixth-century Boudha Stupa. “The wheel of life is Buddhism in a nutshell,” says Monica. “Things such as hate, ignorance and anger keep you rotating around the wheel, so you must follow the principles of Buddhism to detach. If you can’t, there’s no nirvana for you.”  

    Boudha Stupa's prayer wheels
    Boudha Stupa’s prayer wheels are used to recite Buddhist prayers. (Credit: Kate Lewis)

    In a sun-drenched twist to the usual temple visit, we ascend the stupa’s sloping plinth and roam its whitewashed dome. Tendrils of diaphanous prayer flags stream from a steeple-like structure where the Buddha’s unblinking eyes stare out. No nirvana for you… 

    bouda stupa prayer flags
    Tibetan-style prayer flags embellish the whitewashed dome of Bouda Stupa, a Buddhist temple. (Credit: Kate Hennessy)

    The dome is delightfully free of guard rails or chiding from security. There is, however, a stern ‘No TikTok’ sign, perhaps in response to the youth’s newly flexed power. The booted-out Prime Minister, K.P. Sharma Oli, was replaced in a resounding election victory in March by 35-year-old Balendra Shah of the Rastriya Swatantra Party (RSP) – a former rapper and mayor of Kathmandu. The RSP’s manifesto indicates tourism is a priority, and that Nepal’s cultural identity in areas such as gastronomy will be strengthened.  

    Boudha Stupa vendors
    Vibrant souvenir shops and cafes around Boudha Stupa. (Credit: Kate Hennessy)

    A more confronting stop awaits at Pashupatinath Temple. Today is Bala Chaturdashi, a Hindu festival where thousands of devotees gather to honour their dead ancestors. Vendors hauling foam mattresses do a lucrative trade as people set up for a night of vigil. This includes burning the bodies of recently deceased relatives on bamboo pyres in the Bagmati River, which flows into the sacred Ganges.  

    A woman at annual Hindu festival Bala Chaturdashi
    A woman at annual Hindu festival Bala Chaturdashi, in Kathmandu. (Credit: Kate Hennessy)

    Wrapped in a shroud, the bodies are positioned with their heads facing north to the Himalayas where Lord Shiva resides. They’re covered with flowers and straw and set alight by male family members.  

    Hours later, the ashes are swept into the river where devotees will take a holy dip the next day. As much as Monica assures us it’s not voyeuristic to watch, I struggle to do so. “Here you see the reality of life because everyone ends up there,” she says, gesturing to the river.  

    Life unfiltered in the Terai region

    tharu woman
    Tharu woman and master weaver Parbati Chaudhary in Bhada Village. (Credit: Bheem Thapa)

    The reality of life needs processing time, which the western Terai region delivers in spades. The Terai is largely separated from India by the Karnali River and Bardiya National Park, where elephants, rhinos and the elusive Bengal tiger roam.  

    Once a nomadic tribe, the Indigenous Tharu people are now the largest ethnic group here. “They didn’t know their daily life was interesting for international travellers but they’re starting to understand now,” says CHN founder Shiva.  

    safari through Bardiya National Park
    Take a Jeep safari through Bardiya National Park. (Credit: Bheem Thapa)

    We fly Buddha Air to Dhangadhi airport and drive five hours to stay in Tharu homes. The journey to Bhada village is a blur of roadside fruit stalls, traffic-stopping sacred cows and fields sown with wheat, rice, mustard, spinach, cauliflower and potatoes. Nepal’s agriculture feeds only Nepal.  

    Marigolds
    Marigolds are an important part of Hindu rituals. (Credit: Simon Urwin)

    “The only thing we export is young people,” says our guide Bikal. As the light dims and we plunge evermore rural, mysterious mounds of compacted hay – some house-sized – loom like the creatures from Where The Wild Things Are. Even our trusty driver gets flummoxed by a dirt road that abruptly ends and we find ourselves hurtling across a paddock.  

    On arrival, some are ferried to mud-walled cottages greened by gourd creepers, with thatched roofs and rustic-chic mosquito nets. Myself and two others are ushered to the home of corner store owner, mechanic and mushroom farmer Man Kumar Chilaruwa and his wife Rajkumari.  

    community homestay entrance
    A warm welcome at a community homestay. (Credit: Simon Urwin)

    They escort us to a bunker-esque back building with steel doors and a folding security gate, behind which is gleaming linoleum, dolphin-printed tiles and a shower cavity that must be gingerly stepped through to reach the toilet.  

    The ceiling lights emit a rainbow of colours (the bathroom light gets stuck in, frankly, a quite frightening red). We’re nevertheless touched that our hosts invested in all this bling when the average salary is around $275 a month.  

    In the coming days, we participate in Tharu traditions such as making moonshine, dancing, weaving straw handicrafts and gold-panning. We’re fed well with staples of rice, mustard greens, lentil pancakes, daal, curried chicken and tomato chutney served on antibacterial saal leaves.  

    food at community homestay
    Dig in. (Credit: Kate Hennessy)

    Sonara community homestay president Indradevi Tharu tells us river snails are often served, and the boiled and pickled flesh of rats hunted in the rice fields. “Perhaps next time?” we say and all have a laugh.  

    The power of community homestays 

    community homestay owners in Nepal
    Barda community homestay owners Parbati Chaudhary and Ram Krishni Devi Chaudhary. (Credit: Simon Urwin)

    Immersing Western visitors in foreign cultural practices is not new. But with the Tharu, I never get that uneasy sensation that I’m being performed for. Despite being the only tourists, there’s no ‘othering’; just warm, composed and ultra-dignified welcomes. Like we’ve always been here.  

    “I love to have travellers in my village so I can see the world,” says local woman Parbati Chaudhary. “Why would I travel the world when the world comes to me?” 

    The graceful acceptance the Tharu offer, as well as the slow pace, works miracles on my frazzled nervous system. One day I even take a nap on a vacant homestay bed. 

    Sonara community room
    An authentic stay in the Sonara community. (Credit: Kate Hennessy)

    Roosters strut and goats bray as we sit on the ground in al fresco kitchens, rolling rice flour into cylinders steamed to make dhikri (dumplings). When water is needed, we fetch it using a hand-operated pump as a family of ducks strolls by, side-eying us like curious neighbours.  

    Animal lovers will delight in Tharu villages. Kind and resourceful inventions are everywhere, such as snacking stations where two posts lean together, with leafy boughs dangling on rope for baby goats to forage from.  

    CHN’s CEO, Aayusha Prasain, nods knowingly when one in our group says she cried when she left her host, Shayam Chaudhary, in Bhada. Shayam’s 17-year-old son, Prashant, had translated, which deepened the connection.  

    “Community tourism turns travel into a relationship, not a transaction,” says Aayusha. “It places decision-making power in the hands of local communities, especially women and youth.” Since 2018, CHN has hosted more than 4000 travellers from 52 countries in 408 households, and estimates women’s participation has increased by 381 per cent.  

    Elephant watch
    Elephant watch. (Credit: Simon Urwin)

    In the Bardiya community, where vexing human-animal conflict has been a balancing act for decades due to elephants raiding crops, long-time homestay operator Salik Ram Chaudhary says young people keep the older ones on their toes.  

    Gathering greens
    Gathering greens. (Credit: Bheem Thapa)

    “We can’t keep homestays stagnant,” he says. “We have to upgrade our service and redefine our product or young people won’t see it as an attractive business. If we can keep evolving with this travelling trend we’re confident the youths will stay and continue it.” 

    Back in Kathmandu, Monica explains that after the deaths of young protestors in September, a determination had spread to not let their sacrifice be in vain. “We want to keep holding the government accountable,” she says. “We don’t know what situation we’re facing, but we’re ready to face it.”  

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