The best destinations for introverts and extroverts revealed

Whether you’re travelling solo and keeping to yourself or hoping to meet as many new faces as possible, we’ve got the destination for you.  

Humans are usually classed as one of two things: introverts or extroverts – two groups of people who rarely share much of the other’s interests. Yet, there is something that these seemingly opposite personality types have in common; something universally shared. A love of travelling, because let’s be honest, who doesn’t? However, both introverts and extroverts seek different experiences and ways of travelling. So, whether you’re looking for the coolest bar packed with new people or an isolated farmhouse in the middle of the countryside, we’ve compiled a comprehensive list of destinations to satisfy both types of travellers.

Introverts

As a fellow introvert, I have personal insight into what we look for when travelling. Historic cities with empty streets to explore, small towns with locals who greet you with the tip of a hat and nothing more. If you’re looking for peace and quiet but plenty to keep your mind engaged, these are the destinations for you. 

Finland

With a population of just over 5.5 million, Finland is perfect for introverts. It may sound like a lot, but considering New York City alone has a population of nearly 20 million, it’s safe to say you won’t be bumping into people on the sidewalks here. From the cultural capital of Helsinki to ski towns in the Finnish Lapland, introverts will be spoilt for choice.

Traverse under-the-radar spots across Helsinki.

Helsinki is a city sans skyscrapers; in fact, its tallest building is located on the outskirts of the capital and sits at a mere 134 metres tall. This means fewer overwhelmingly crammed streets that make you feel like you’re all boxed in. 

Pastel-hued structures line up the streets.

Best known for its sea-facing landscape, subculture, architecture and art, Helsinki is a wanderer’s paradise. If you’re in the capital, must-see sites include Suomenlinna Fortress, Siberius Park, Kamppi Chapel of Silence and Helsinki’s Design District.

Kamppi Chapel is a calm and peaceful refuge.

Not a fan of the city? Me either. Head north to the Finnish Lapland for soul-searching and going solo. Experience outdoor adventure in this vast subarctic wilderness, with natural phenomena such as the midnight sun and Northern Lights sure to inspire wonder. I recommend visiting the Santa Claus Village in Rovaniemi or learning about the culture of the Indigenous Sámi people in Inari. 

Visit the official hometown of Santa Claus in Finland.

New Zealand

With more sheep than people (approximately five sheep to every person), you’re more likely to run into a lamb than another human. Welcome to Aotearoa/New Zealand. 

Stumble upon herds of sheep.

New Zealand is made up of stunning landscapes, mountain peaks and deep-dive lakes. Quiet thrill-seekers can dabble in hiking or bungy-jumping, while others can opt to cruise Milford Sound or explore Hobbiton.

Towering mountain peaks serve as a majestic backdrop of Milford Sound.

Cities such as Auckland, Wellington and Christchurch offer artistic, cultural and historic experiences. I recommend the Te Papa Tongarewa Museum in Wellington for its awe-inspiring Māori art. Or check out some of the South Island’s best vineyards on a Queenstown Wine Trail.

Stunning natural wonders make up New Zealand.

A visit to Lake Rotomairewhenua in the depths of Nelson Lakes National Park is also a must, holding the title of the world’s clearest lake. Considered sacred to the Māori people, it’s important to remain respectful and follow the rules (no swimming or washing in, touching or taking lake water). Lake Rotomairewhenua can be reached via the Travers-Sabine Circuit. 

Lake Rotomairewhenua is a picturesque lake with the clearest water in the world.

Nepal

Immerse yourself in the tranquillity that is Nepal – a small, landlocked country in Asia. It is the dreamiest place to reset and recharge.

Go trekking to witness rewarding views at the top.

For introverts, Nepal is one of the best places to travel solo as it’s known for being safe and quiet. If you find solace in movement, there are countless treks across the country, from Everest views in the Himalayas to diverse scenery along hiking circuits.

Be sure to include Mt Everest in your bucketlist.

Nepal embodies the philosophy of taking your time and being present. A great way to ground yourself is by visiting any of the ancient and serene temples on offer. Pashupatinath Temple is a no-brainer; listed as an UNESCO World Heritage site in 1979, it is considered the oldest temple in Nepal, dating back to at least 1692 CE.

Pashupatinath Temple is among the most sacred Hindu temples in Nepal.

Whether you choose to meander at your own pace or smash out as many hikes as you can, this beautiful country of colours and contrasts will welcome you with open arms.

Embark on a mystic journey to the mountainous region of Nepal.

Iceland

What better way to get away from it all than to visit a tiny island nation in the middle of the North Atlantic? If looming skyscrapers and never-ending cities sound a little intimidating, look no further than Iceland. 

Iceland is an introvert’s paradise, consecutively ranking first on the Global Peace Index. Its capital city Reykjavík is currently home to under 200,000 people – practically heaven on Earth for introverts who like the city but loathe the crowds.

Catch sweeping views of the snow-capped hills behind Reykjavík city.

Facing Faxaflói Bay, the city is backdropped by the peninsula of Akranes and Snæfellsjökull in the distance, promising unreal views all day long. Reykjavík highlights include Hallgrímskirkja Church, Skólavörðustígur, the Perlan Museum and Tjörnin Lake.

The towering structure of Hallgrímskirkja Church is an astounding landmark in Iceland.

However, Iceland’s main drawcard is its sweeping and sparse countryside: natural hot springs, ancient ice caves, mountain waterfalls and sprawling meadows dot Iceland’s landscape; epitomising solitude and quiet living.

Iceland is famed for its scenic landscapes.

Japan

This may seem like an odd inclusion, considering Japan has one of the world’s highest populations. Yet this city seems designed for individuals, which is perfect for us introverts. From restaurants with privacy walls to hostels with bed curtains, this is the place to be if you favour the fast life but on your own terms.

Sakura trees are in full bloom in spring.

Cities like Tokyo and Osaka are brimming with restaurants designed for going solo. No more sitting at a table for one; sidle up to the counter and watch the chef cook. Don’t worry about awkward eye contact or butting elbows with fellow patrons. Many restaurants in Japan have single-seater booths with walls on either side and a small window the chef can open to deliver your food.

Indulge in a warm, comforting bowl of ramen.

Another introvert perk are Japan’s capsule hotels. These small pods are perfect for solo travellers who like their own space but have a small budget. Inside you’ll find a bed, storage and sometimes even a small TV. Note that bathrooms are shared, but female- and male-only capsule hotels exist.

Stay overnight in a capsule hotel.

Extroverts

I may not be an extrovert myself, but I’ve travelled with my fair share of them. Life of the party types who are down for anything, with anyone, anywhere. If your next adventure needs the excitement and exhilaration of new faces and spaces, we’ve got the places for you. 

Hong Kong

Hong Kong has got it going on. Home to over seven million people across just over 1,000 square kilometres, you’re bound to make new friends. It may be small, but Hong Kong sure packs a punch. The streets are alive with activity 24/7, from street food stalls surrounded by late-night foodies to bars overflowing with club-goers.

Let loose in the bustling streets of Hong Kong.

A trip to Disneyland Hong Kong is essential; laugh yourself silly on rollercoasters and feast upon Disney-themed treats well into the night. With such a vibrant, synergetic atmosphere, you’ll be making mates in no time.

Taste your way around its street food laneways.

The district of Lan Kwai Fong is known for its neon-lit streets, laneways, bars and nightlife. Events are often held here, from street performances and music gigs to pub crawl tours and shopping strips. Head here for a night of carousing.

The streets are more alive at night.

Other unmissable experiences include a visit to Tian Tan Buddha, a fun-filled day at Ocean Park and a wander through the Hong Kong Museum of History. Even extroverts will hit the hay feeling spent.

Tian Tan Bhuddha is a representation of man’s relationship with nature.

Spain

From booming cities like Barcelona and Madrid to the vacay islands of Mallorca and Ibiza, Spain attracts extroverts like moths to a flame. Don’t bother writing up an itinerary, you’ll find something new around every corner. 

Be mesmerised by the flourishing architectural history of Barcelona.

If you’re a lover of architecture, history and distinct cultural experiences, meet your latest lover: Spain. Discover primordial basilicas, loaded museums, gothic quarters and palatial casas – you’re truly spoilt for choice.

Sagrada Família is the largest unfinished Catholic church in Spain.

Mallorca and Ibiza’s reputations definitely precede them in the best way possible. Known locally as hot-to-trot party destinations, you can rise with the sun and party into the night on these islands of endless summer.

Sail across the turquoise-coloured waters of Mallorca.

Before the global pandemic hit, Spain saw millions of visitors per year, with numbers increasing again post-pandemic. So, you’re sure to go home with a multitude of new connections, both locals and globetrotters alike.

Bask in warm sunshine at Ibiza Beach Club.

Amsterdam

Easy, breezy Amsterdam – the most populous city of the Netherlands. The layout of this city is perfect for extrovert-inspired exploring; flat streets flaunting funky restaurants, hip bars, whimsical bookshops and Dutch gift shops selling groovy souvenirs.

Beautiful tulips bloom in spring.

A draw card for extroverts is the number of hostels across the city. Not only are they cheap and packed full of travellers, but they’re also designed to be cool, comfortable and collaborative.

Groove your way around the city’s hip boutiques and restaurants.

Take St Christopher’s at The Winston – this hostel has its own on-site nightclub on the ground floor. ClinkNOORD is another brilliant option, with a particularly extroverted design. You’ll find the atmosphere is similar at hostels all over the city, no matter the price point.

Cruise along the historical waterways of Amsterdam.

The vibes of Amsterdam vibrate on a gregarious level. From the jumping streets of De Negen Straatjes and Foodhallen to wine- and cheese-themed canal tours and the famous Van Gogh Museum, you’ll be running from one side of the city to the other and meeting amazing Amsterdammers along the way. 

Don’t miss out on the dreamy art installations at Van Gogh Museum.

Brazil

You’ll be welcomed with open arms and beautiful, bright smiles upon your arrival in Brazil. Known for its lively culture and tenacious residents – where better to travel as an extrovert?

Cheerful performers with colourful costumes grace the carnaval in Brazil.

Rio de Janeiro, the capital of Brazil, is laden with adventures for thrill-seekers and partygoers. You’ll find parties all over the city, from booming beach clubs along the coast to raving nightclubs in the heart of the city. 

Set foot in the bustling seaside city of Rio De Janeiro.

Namely, the district of Lapa is practically jumping every night of the week. The usual bars, pubs and restaurants are all fantastic, however, Lapa’s claim to fame is its hugely popular street parties. Gather with locals and tourists and dance to samba music under the iconic Carioca Aqueduct.

The Carioca Aqueduct is your gateway to Lapa’s nightlife centre.

Festivals are another Brazilian staple. Whether you want to groove to live music in the sun or celebrate the cultures of the country, there’ll be a festival with your name on it. Either way, you’ll leave Brazil sun-kissed, with funky music well and truly setting up shop in your head. Not to mention a contact list full of new friends.

Get your sun-kissed glow at Cococabana Beach.

United States

This list wouldn’t be complete without mentioning North America. With more metropoles than one can care to count, extroverts will feel right at home in The States. 

Experience the lively nightlife scene in Las Vegas.

Los Angeles is on the bucket list of thousands; the sheer number of interesting individuals wandering the hip streets of LA is a sure enough reason for any extrovert to visit. You’ll get to know an eclectic and exciting bunch of characters by strolling a beach promenade or stopping for coffee on a street corner. 

Las Vegas is a renowned entertainment district in the world.

Extroverts can be quite good at stepping out of their comfort zone, and LA has more than enough on offer to help you do just that. Rollerskate The Strand in front of hundreds; brush shoulders with celebrities at Coachella; or discover the dark side at The Museum of Death. 

Feel your adrenaline pumping on roller skates.

Don’t forget the concrete jungle of New York City; what sounds more appealing to an extrovert than a city that never sleeps? Boogie your way through New Orleans, hit The Strip in Las Vegas or party it up in Atlanta. Trust me, you’ll be all extroverted out.

New York is deemed a city that never sleeps for a reason.